It is time to stop feeling sorry for myself
Posted: Monday, October 24, 2005
by Steve Hill
Stuttering therapy
Before the age of twenty-two I used to think I was one of the most unluckiest people in the world. My life seemed to be such a struggle compared to other people who seemingly breezed through life. I was caught up in a web of negativity and needed someone or something to help me to escape.
Then I met a man who was around fifty while working on a project at work. We were having a chat one day when he stated that I was a depressive person who rarely smiled. What he said was quite upsetting and disturbing, however would have a profound effect on my future.
In a shocked state I denied the accusation but be continued, yes you are, you very rarely smile, you are negative about most issues and you always seem to be carrying the world on your shoulders.
This man was aged around fifty three and continued, I used to be like you and then I was given some advice, of which I am now going to relay to you. When you feel down, depressed or sorry for yourself, read the newspapers or watch the news on the television. You may then realise that you are in fact one of the lucky ones.
I listened and thought about what he had said. I had never been a big reader or watcher of the news, but decided to start. The advice was totally correct, the news from around the world and even my own country was quite shocking. I realised that the worries I had were actually quite trivial and that I needed to cherish everyday and start to look on the bright side of life.
Stephen Hill
Stephen Hill has a number of websites including:
http://www.stammering-stuttering.co.uk
http://www.natural-health-cure.co.uk
http://www.natural-remedy-information.co.uk
Then I met a man who was around fifty while working on a project at work. We were having a chat one day when he stated that I was a depressive person who rarely smiled. What he said was quite upsetting and disturbing, however would have a profound effect on my future.
This man was aged around fifty three and continued, I used to be like you and then I was given some advice, of which I am now going to relay to you. When you feel down, depressed or sorry for yourself, read the newspapers or watch the news on the television. You may then realise that you are in fact one of the lucky ones.
I listened and thought about what he had said. I had never been a big reader or watcher of the news, but decided to start. The advice was totally correct, the news from around the world and even my own country was quite shocking. I realised that the worries I had were actually quite trivial and that I needed to cherish everyday and start to look on the bright side of life.
Stephen Hill
Stephen Hill has a number of websites including:
http://www.stammering-stuttering.co.uk
http://www.natural-health-cure.co.uk
http://www.natural-remedy-information.co.uk
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Top-level comments on this article: (1 total)WTF? I think anyone who is feeling sorry for themselves (me included) hates themselves even more BECAUSE we realize that our "problems" are nothing like those in crapholes around the world. I'm not starving, I'm not in danger of being killed by militants, I'm not afraid of imprisonment for opposing views. I live in a country where people from around the world would kill to be in. That's what is so shaming about the feeling I have! Why the heck can't I shake the "issues"? Yeah I'm broke by U.S. standards, I work too long for too little money, I've not taken advantage of my luck to have been born here. But why? Why can't I seem to get my crap together. That's the thing that makes me hate myself even more.
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